Relationship??

actually how a person make it to become couple? There have few running step to make it! Actually, all the people who in the world was pass by alotz of thousand stranger. Then.. WHO was bring them come to know each other?? Which is "Takdir" / "YUAN FEN"! Because of this, then it make a person which is stranger become as a friends. From that, after second by second, minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day, week by week, month by month, year by year.....make them become COUPLE!! How come it will happens?? Nobody know! But I really no understand somebody, which is LOVE each others, but no dare to tell, no dare to share and just wait wait wait and wait! Izzit it will make it automatically?? It could not happen..bring some BRAVE..move a big STEP..take a MINUTE..then tell the TRUTH!! and make it HAPPEN!!! Maybe that person was your whole life partner..!! JUST WAITING YOU TO DO SOMETHING!! Then how come, somebody can together until so long..2 years..4 years..6 years..8 years..then come out another NEW word..which is "BREAK UP"!? What matters to make it happen?? Its very easy..which is one of them feel that his/her partner no LOVE her anymore..keep CHEATING him/her..no more last time FEEL..outside got another NEW PARTNER..lost CONFIDENT to this relationship..cannot communicate WELL..different WORLD PERSON..always QUAREL..and so on..! Actually, all of this is out of our control..because all is "YUAN FEN"!! Remember a sentence.."If force to be gather, It wont give you any hapiness"! If you still was single, don't worry.."YUAN FEN" was on the way come to you..don't force yourself to be gather with another person which you dislike..it wont bring any happiness to you. Who is your bf/gf..all is control by you. You may choose him/her OR you may ignore him/her..you can make choice..don't because of somebody saying a few thing to you..then effect you to ignore or like him/her. No matter how..you must remember that, friends is no a person who stay with you, no a person who always take care of you..BUT your partner..which is your husband or wife..JUST was a person IMPORTANT to you!! If you really found the person who you loved..don't simply give up..must learn to GET IT..LOVE is always around of you!